I forgive you. I forgive you for being so weak. I forgive you for being too trusting. I forgive you for being so emotional. I forgive you for taking time. Yes, you put your walls up, and I understand why. Take your time. Heal yourself and be happy. Pick yourself up and in time, love again. Don’t regret anything, everything is meant to teach you something. Forget the anger, and keep the happy memories.
I forgive you too. I’m sorry if I didn’t have the courage to fight for you. I’m sorry if I made you feel unloved, uncared and worthless. You’re not. You’re important and I was just too scared to admit it. You’re my comfort zone and you understand me like no one else. I feel bad that I pushed you to the end. I can’t blame you for giving up when I wanted you to wait and be more patient.. like you said, love isn’t a game. And maybe it just wasn’t the right time, I wasn’t ready yet. But please believe me when I say that it was never my intention to hurt you. I’m sorry our story had to end this way.
In time, someday.. when we’re both ready, maybe we can be friends.. who knows what might happen. I still believe that if it is meant for you, it will be yours.
I wish you the happiness you want and may she love you just like how you want to be loved.
When you’re wrong, bringing yourself to apologize is the hardest part - why ruin it with an excuse? If you’re truly sorry for what you did, just apologize, and leave it at that.
Either you control your attitude, or it controls you.
It’s one thing to get angry about this or about that, but when you become an angry person, your attitude is no longer yours - it is you. Have you ever found yourself in the middle of a blowout, angry as all get out, but regretting every passing second? Have you ever been yelling, saying words that you know you will regret, but can’t stop, because you’re already heated up and rolling? Getting a rein on your pride then and apologizing then is the best way to go, because if the person is worth it, you’re going to have to apologize sooner or later. And, it’s better to do it, before you’ve caused pain that you will regret. You can become your emotions.
Money is a lousy way of keeping score.
Money means nothing. What’s really happening, when money becomes the tally marks on the scorecard is comparing different acts of care, appreciation, love, etc. Except, money is a lousy substitution for these very real things. If buying things or giving money has become a way of showing you care, reevaluate - you are probably doing more damage than good. Because, not only is your loved one not getting the full effect of what you’re really trying to say or do (if they get it at all), but they could be also forming their own personal interpretations of your actions, such as thinking you’re trying to buy them, divert attention from your slip-ups, or trying to shut them up. Say what you mean, and mean what you say.
Sometimes, when angry, you may have the right to be angry, but it is never right to be cruel.
Everyone gets angry, but no one stays angry forever. And, if in a relationship that you value, you should avoid acting on your anger, especially if it leads to cruelty. People regret the things they do all the time. You never know what may change your mind. You never know what you may have been missing. We don’t all the time see the actual reality of the situation - you don’t want to do or say anything that you regret, later. WORDS STICK - and, they have powers far beyond what you may think.
I wanna believe something good is out there for me.. but right now.. I just can’t. I don’t know what I did to feel like crap, but I do. I don’t know where to find the motivation to get up..and fight again. I’m so tired of everything that’s happening in my life. I hate this. I really do. :(
“There are days when I feel like I need you back again, that I miss you so much and it hurts me physically to think that you’re gone. But I need to stop wishing for you to come back, because you never will. never.”—Poetic Love Quotes (via lovequotebook)
I’ll admit that there are still parts of me that believe that this story has been left unfinished. There are pages I’ll never be able to read and new chapters that I’ll never get to experience. Part of me still believes that these pages exist somewhere, floating around in the corners of some universe. We just weren’t able to find them and we’re never going to find them because this book has closed — and I’m the one who’s closing it. #EliteDaily
“You absolutely destroyed me, did you know that? But you know what, I just wanna say thank you. I don’t regret meeting you, but I don’t wish you would magically come back into my life again because I believe God gives us someone like this for a reason. Someone who will hurt you a million times, someone who will leave you & not look back. But this person, they will make you a better person in the end. You will come out stronger than ever before and you will be happier without him than you were with him.”—Poetic Love Quotes (via lovequotebook)
“Always put yourself in others’ shoes. If you feel that it hurts you, it probably hurts the other person, too. If only everyone can do that. This world would be a much better place to live in.”—Daily Relatable Love Quotes (via thelovewhisperer)
“If someone really wanted you, they would actually put some effort into trying to get your attention, and make sacrifices for you. they wouldn’t just tell you they want you, they would show you in every little way possible that they want you.”—Your daily dose of Love Capsules (via thelovewhisperer)
“The best relationships are the ones that are carefree, when you can talk for hours about anything, the ones where you can just be you and know you’re still loved.”—Your daily dose of Love Capsules (via thelovewhisperer)